In determining how to win back a girl it generally will not be summed up in simple little statements such as “do this or do that”, because when making the optimum suggestions for success, it is usually best to know the underlying situation before making the suggestions.
I do not believe in playing stupid, childish games, so you will find that my suggestions on how to win a girl back are all about you about being a real man and stepping up to the plate. This means get rid of the ego, the bad butt attitude and flush the superman hard as nail feelings.
How to Win a Girl Back – Basic 3 Step Approach
1.> After a Few Days: some time apart is not necessarily a bad thing, but after a few days apart call her up and ask simply can you meet for coffee somewhere neutral. This should be a place where you do not have to raise your voice in conversation to be heard and none of her friends or your friends are there to create distractions. AND, the Big Time “hell no” this should definitely not be at your place or hers. Do not even think about it!
2.> A New Attitude Prevails: when you see her let her know how good it feels to see her and that you are genuinely appreciate the fact that she met you. At some point, look her directly into her eyes and open your heart to her. Reach out slowly and touch her hand and as you talk tell her how you feel. I mean how you really feel. Don’t be a wuss or a pinhead about it! Do as a mature man should. Do it from your heart and unselfishly share!
3.> Be Gentle & Kind: with every move that you take. Eliminate impatience and exasperation from your voice tone as you talk with her; especially if, initially she gives you some resistance to your requests. If you love her, you can act it in your physical actions. This is your moment of greatness, so focus on HER and let her know that how you feel about being apart from her. Let her know how your world is so much brighter when she is part of it. Let her know that you would like another chance at making this working and that you are fully committed to making that happen.
The Big No, No’s! No begging, no groveling on the ground, no anger, no cursing, no threats, no insults, no tit for tat, no “remember when you said….” Dude, do not spew forth this kind of vomit! That is not how to win a girl back… not ever!
Let’s be real; you are no longer a child, but a man, so if she rejects or denies your efforts ACCEPT it, and thank her for the opportunity to at least meet with you.
Look, here is the truth; IF there is anything in her mind worth saving then the energy that you have put forth here should yield you some clearly discernible positive signs, actions and behaviors from her in some way.
What you are going through is not easy and I know how you feel. I want to encourage you in continuing to learn more how to win a girl back because it is invaluable information to have on stand-by in your brain cells!